家庭对于孩子究竟有什么影响？What is the impact of the family for the child

家庭对于孩子究竟有什么影响？它是决定性影响么？ 父母给予了孩子生命,孩子出世后,未来如何,自有定数,与父母无必然关系。孩子的未来,不依赖家庭。

What is the impact of the family for the child? 27-Apr-15 在天

What is the impact of the family for the child?

ABSTRACT

What is the impact of the family for the child? It is a decisive influence or not? Facts have proved that the family impact on children, but this impact is not decisive.

Keywords: Children, Family, Impact.

What is the impact of the family for the child?

It is a decisive influence or not?

My answer might have a different: parents give a child's life body, when the child was born, the future is its own, no causal relationship with the parents.

Facts have proved that the family impact on children, but this impact is not decisive. Why?

Steve Jobs (1955-2011) was born, how the family?

Ms. Chanel (1883-1971) was born, how the family?

He and she, the similar orphanage life; and future achievements are not a dime relationship with their parents.

Buddha was born, how the family?

Emperor Zhu Yuanzhang (1328-1398) was born, how the family?

One is a future king, with parents and wives and children; another is a poor bankrupt man with broken family, no enough food, and no place to bury his late father. The former was initiative to set aside his harmony family, and the latter was forced to put aside his dilapidated family. Years later, one is Buddha; another is Emperor.

The child's futures do not rely on their families; when the children now live in houses of their parents, and the parents should be grateful and cherished. Future let the children free-fly to its own achievement.

Everyone in every way must be able to achieve a lifetime thing.

Children so, parents so.

About me：在天，本名伍宝林，中山大学硕士，微信号Hi-MyTea。

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家庭对于孩子究竟有什么影响？它是决定性影响么？ 父母给予了孩子生命,孩子出世后,未来如何,自有定数,与父母无必然关系。孩子的未来,不依赖家庭。

What is the impact of the family for the child? 27-Apr-15 在天

家庭对于孩子究竟有什么影响？

在天之心得分享： 家庭对于孩子究竟有什么影响？它是决定性影响么？

我的回答，与各位或许有不同：父母给予了孩子生命，孩子出世后，未来如何，自有定数，与父母无必然关系。

事实证明，家庭对孩子有影响，但这样的影响不是决定性的。为什么这样讲？

乔布斯出世后，家庭如何？

香奈儿出世后，家庭如何？

他和她同历孤儿院，未来成就，与父母无一毛钱关系。

释迦牟尼出世后，家庭如何？

朱元璋出世后，家庭如何？

一个是富拥一个国家，有父母和妻儿；一个是饥荒欠食，亲父死了没地方安葬；一个主动抛开和谐之家，一个被迫抛开破败之家；历经岁月，成佛成帝。

在天以为：孩子的未来，不依赖家庭；当孩子现时生活在父母之家，父母应当感恩和珍惜。未来，放手让孩子去成就。

任何人，一生必定能成一件事。

孩子如是，父母如是。

作者简介

在天，本名伍宝林，中山大学硕士，微信号Hi-MyTea

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