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Debate on Campus Romance

Nowadays, it has become a more and more universal phenomenon that university students spend part of their time in dating. We can see many couples walking by, their hands held tightly on campus. In fact, the heated discussion on campus romance has never ceased. Some people hold firm to their belief that campus romance brings more negative influence on the couples like becoming extravagant, isolated and unsocial. Nonetheless,someone strongly opposes this partial view about campus romance.

What is my opinions？I don’t know the right answer on this debate . My attitude of campus romance is indifferent I thought. Everything in our world can be a double-edged sword. Campus love is no exception. Therefore, I hold two different sides of campus romance.

The view of supporting: I think that university students’ cogitation mode and values towards love is still extremely similar to the tradition that they have inherited from their ancestors for hundreds years and have been the mainstream in China. I am very appreciate the classical concept of love like many ordinary Chinese but it also can’t be denied that some people did it ostensibly for love, but really for money or power. It was a common matter of debate whether people should marry for love or for money. Just like the first sentence in <<Pride and Prejudice>>”It is a true universally

acknowledged, that a signal man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife” is the world really ruled by money? Even so, I still believe that money can’t buy a real love.

On the contrary , I also hold the against view , because I believe that college students are young people,who are beginner in everything, are not yet capable of love. To them, sometimes love is just an urge from curiosity. They can’t understand the truth of love, considering it as a romantic, pure and sweet thing. Actually, it is average and filled with the conflicts, responsibility and pressure. For example, when you are together, you will take the responsibility to care other, to protect him or her from being hurt. What’s more, sometimes they can appreciate a person easily due to lack of experience. They can’t tell the differences between appreciating a person and loving a person, which in misleading. Students are not able to make a living with our own hands, and there is no doubt, have also depends on the material thing, besides the feelings.

Though studies are surely the main part of our campus life, there are more

adventures in campus romance. Only when balanced well other parts of life can it bring more benefits.To speak frankly, campus romance is fragile, for the sparks of love between them can easily die out just because of their immaturity and thoughtlessness. Whether it is right or not, it all depends on yourselves. Weigh the pross and cons, and have your own method. Life is on your own hand.